Online dating can sometimes feel like a performance: curated profiles, recycled small talk, and plenty of time wasted. The Hily dating app takes a different approach. Short for “Hey, I Like You,” Hily encourages people to “date as you are.”
Instead of chasing the perfect match, users are encouraged to enjoy the process of meeting others and showing up authentically. With more than 35 million users and recognition as one of the top 10 dating apps in the US, Hily promises to make dating feel more fun and less pressured.
The app promises to show you more of your type over time through different features. For example, Things in Common shows the interests you share with other users, and the Icks & Clicks compatibility quiz shows you your compatibility rating with potential matches. They also have the Zodiac Synastry feature, which gives an astrological perspective on whether you will connect easily with a potential match. These features help users find meaningful connections based on personality compatibility rather than physical attraction alone.
But does Hily deliver on its promises? To find out, I asked a friend to test the app and then checked out what real users are saying on Trustpilot.
A Positive Experience: Penny’s Story
My friend Penny always disliked the idea of predictable dinners or coffee dates. When she tried the Hily dating app, she received the usual suggestions of fancy restaurants and day trips, but nothing stood out. Just when she was ready to give up, someone asked if she wanted to spend a day volunteering at a local animal shelter.
That date turned out to be everything she wanted. It was genuine, unique, and meaningful. Thanks to this match, she also ended up adopting a one-eyed cat she now adores. For Penny, Hily created space for something real.
Is Hily Fake? What are Trustpilot Users Saying?
Trustpilot reviewers are also generally positive about Hily; the app has an overall 4-star rating. Many people mentioned the way it avoids fake profiles and helps connect people with similar lifestyles. Take this reviewer, for example:
Not every review is glowing. Some users point out areas where the app still needs improvement while admitting it works well overall. One reviewer explained that the algorithm sometimes feels “off,” but praised the quick responses from the support team. Here’s their Hily dating experience:
Another reviewer described the Hily app as “all around a decent app.” They found the lifetime membership a fair deal and said they had more interaction on Hily than on other apps. At the same time, they admitted that conversations can be hit-or-miss, which isn’t unusual for online dating:
Where Users Felt Let Down
Of course, some users were disappointed. One person reported being locked out of their account twice before they could even start using the app:
Here is another user who thinks Hily is “average”:
Final Thoughts
Hily is a real platform with unique features such as compatibility quizzes, icebreakers, and zodiac synastry, all designed to make dating more authentic and fun. A few users have had concerns about technical hiccups and pricing.
Still, if you’re looking for a dating app that values honesty and self-expression, Hily is worth a try. Just remember to stay mindful of the limitations of dating apps, and go in with realistic expectations.
